Caitlyn signed up again to take her SATs at the beginning of the month. She tried to take it last year but they cancelled it on her. She studied a little bit but I don't think she took it that seriously. It's kind of optional for her at this point. The schools are mostly letting the kids slide on it because of the whole Covid situation. Some schools are getting rid of it altogether.
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We got to celebrate Christian's birthday near the beginning of the month. Marian drove out to surprise him in the afternoon when he got home from work. We had dinner and dessert.
Caitlyn got him some special containers for his tools and drew him a neat picture. Marian got him some neat antique looking light bulbs from the places she worked at for a while. I got him a plasma cutter for his birthday/Christmas present. It was kind of big so it will have to do for presents for the rest of the year!It works great and will help with his metal working a great deal.--------
Emily got a temporary job! We are pretty excited about that. She needed one pretty badly. She was really starting to stress out because she signed a contract to stay in her apartment during the winter semester already but has not been able to attain a job. She will only work until mid December but it will relieve some of the stress for a while. She is off-track in the winter so hopefully she will be able to put all her efforts and time into getting a full time job then.
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During the Thanksgiving break, we drove up to Oregon to visit Christian's mom. It is a long grueling trip driving up through California but we made the 14 hour drive in one day. Christian actually drove the entire way. Caitlyn was supposed to get a lot of practice in but it didn't really happen. I think she slept through half of the drive. I offered to drive but Christian was obsessed in keeping his miles per gallon up. He actually managed to get an average of 28 mpg on that trip up.
Christian's mom moved to a new place since we last visited so this was our first trip to see the new place. It was very cute and quiet there. It was also very cold. It's has still been very hot in Riverside even though it is mid November now. We were still getting temperatures in the 90s and above 100 in our driveway.
We mostly just hung out and visited. Caitlyn got started on some puzzles Cheri brought out for her while we chatted. It was one of those 10 in 1 puzzle sets. After finishing a few, she was determined to finish them all during our brief visit. We all sat down and helped occasionally but she did the bulk of each of the puzzles.
She was trying to decide if she wanted to make us a turkey or prime rib during our visit and decided to do both! We had turkey on our first night.
As we sat around and chatted on our first day there, somehow the conversation turned to Jeeps. I think we were talking about Emily's complaint that we all had 4x4s except for her. She had her eye on a used Jeep in a lot she passes often and tried to make a deal with helping us get the thing. We told her the timing wasn't right because of Emily's financial situation and the stress that she's been under. We know that her Ranger is working perfectly and is in great shape. Switching her out to a vehicle with unknown problems and history was probably not a good idea at this point. Plus, Emily has really used the space in her pickup to move herself back and forth to college (along with helping move some of her friends). A tiny 2 door Jeep just wasn't going to be that practical...although, we would be a little more comfortable with her having a 4x4 in the snow there. Cheri said that she would buy the thing and we can sell the Ranger and pay her back half and use the rest to fix up the Jeep.
We didn't have any plans, so just for the heck of it, we went to check out the Jeep Wrangler that first day we were there. It was mostly in good order and hadn't been altered much...which is usually a good thing. Just like Caitlyn's XJ, the suspension on the TJ was shot. It also had a few other hopefully minor problems like the heater and an engine code for a problem with the oxygen sensor but not too much else. The price was pretty good considering all used and new cars are pretty outrageous these days. Anyway, it was at the lower end of the going rate.
Caitlyn texted Emily about it to see what she thought. She thought her sister was pulling her leg at first, but after the initial shock, she decided to stick with the Ranger for many of the same reasons we thought. We were really happy with her decision. It was very well thought out and responsible. We know what a temptation it would have been to choose the Jeep. We told Cheri to forget about it, but she decided that she would just buy it for Christian instead as his toy/project car. We were a bit flabbergasted and shocked and I think the temptation to accept it was a bit much for Christian. He had already been talking about getting a TJ this past year for us once the XJ was done and Caitlyn was off at school. Either that or he would get another XJ for me if the Trooper died. He loves working on those old Jeeps. They are simple and accessible. You can get parts for them almost anywhere and you can customized them however you want. Plus, they are so very capable off road.
Plus, I think she kept separating me from him during all of this so that she could overwhelm him into accepting it. She really wanted to do something for him so I guess, in the end, he just let her. The whole thing was so crazy. Caitlyn and I just kind of sat back and shook our heads, while working on puzzles, but secretly plotting to take it out for a joy ride while they were out.
Anyway, Christian ended up getting to spend a lot of one on one time with his mom, which was really good and we sat around and watched movies and relaxed the rest of the time.
We know that all the craziness kind of wiped out his mom, so we suggested that we just continued to eat the turkey leftovers instead of slaving away at making more food when there was plenty to eat still. She sent to prime rib back with us in the end along with the rest of the turkey as she is really unable to eat any of it these days.
We did stop by to visit his brother, Mark and his wife on the second afternoon. We did not spend a lot of time there though because he didn't even go to bed until we got up and had breakfast that day. We got a tour of their new place though. It was a fairly small house but certainly big enough for just the two of them, plus it had a decent plot of land and a nice big shop plus garage and extra storage so I think it works out well for them.
Unfortunately, I did not take too many pictures. It was actually just the one as we were getting ready to leave. Because it was safer for Christian to just tow the Jeep back, no one else could help him drive or get any driving practice in. We decided to take the long meandering way back as Christian had never towed before and didn't know how difficult it would be to change lanes and haul all that weight up the grapevine. Unfortunately, it took a lot longer to get back and we ran into a bunch of really sketchy and scary situations with the other cars. It was kind of a nightmare but the truck had no problems pulling the extra weight, although, we only got 16 mpg coming home (which was still a bit better than Christian anticipated).














































