Caitlyn had a birthday this past Friday. She turned 11 this year. Only one year of Primary left...so sad.
We were originally going to have Caitlyn's party the next day (on Saturday), but Christian's family was out of town. My mom stopped coming for the grandkids birthday parties a few years ago. She has cataracts and they won't operate on her until it worsens. Anyway, she is not that familiar with the area in which we live, so she doesn't like to drive out here on her own.
When the kids' birthday lands on a weekday, we usually will have a small special dinner for them and then a bigger party with Marian and the grandparents on the weekend closest to their birthday or the one most convenient for everyone. Since none of the grandparents were going to make it, Marian decided to just save us the trouble and get off early on Friday to make it down for her actual birthday dinner on Friday instead. Thanks Marian, you are always so thoughtful!
Caitlyn loves to choose shrimp tempura for her special dinner. Usually, I just cheat and get the ready made stuff from Costco. You just pop it in the oven and you are done. This year Marian brought us some bags of jumbo shrimp, so we decided to make it from scratch. We also cut up some vegetables to make into tempura as well. Deep frying is not something I do very often, as it is a messy affair. I decided to just make it outside on the porch to try not to get my kitchen covered in oil.
Caitlyn also requested BLTs the previous night since Emily was out with the youth group doing baptisms at the temple. She is not as big of a fan of BLTs so we don't do it that often. When her sister is away, Caitlyn usually requests it. Anyway, the bacon already made a pretty big mess in the kitchen and I didn't want to deep fry on top of that!
We had some miso soup to start and made some steamed rice. We made tempura in small batches as we ate. We still made too much and everyone was stuffed before we finished it all.
We went in for presents after that. Marian brought a ton as usual.
It is torture for Emily to watch Caitlyn open gifts. She is so slow and methodical. Plus, it is worse since none of the presents are for her. It isn't so bad when she gets gifts in between like on Christmas.
By the time Caitlyn finished all her gifts, everyone was ready for cake again.
This year, I made her a pink grapefruit and wheat ombre cake. It turned out pretty good! Caitlyn has been enamored with scented soaps and lotions this past year, especially grapefruit scented ones. I finally got her some pink grapefruit bath gel and body butter for her birthday and I made the cake to match!
It was pretty late when we were all done but we let the kids stay up a bit longer to watch Caitlyn's First Year video that Christian made. He made a video of her 10th year as well but we had to save it for the next day since it was pretty late. Unfortunately, the rest of us stayed up talking until 2:am still after the kids went to bed! Marian had planned to spend the night and spend some more time with the kids in the morning and afternoon but we didn't get much sleep.
We had leftover birthday cake for breakfast. Hey, don't judge! It's made with whole wheat and eggs! Then we got to watch Caitlyn's video and worked on some projects. Marian went out with the kids and brought back some supplies for lunch. We grilled some tasty prime rib steaks for a late lunch before Marian would have to go home.
It would have been a pleasant day, but the stupid Frat house down the street were having some raging party all afternoon and evening. It is hard to enjoy yourself in your own home when they have loud speakers blaring music and people screaming. It is like living next to a night club except that they are open day and night.
After Marian took off, I had to work on getting the girls' costumes together and have them practice a bit. Marian actually watched some of it. The girls were supposed to perform at church for some fund raiser for the boy scout troupe that evening.