Wednesday, March 31, 2021

March

Spring Break this year was pretty messed up. Christian had the third week off and Caitlyn had the fourth week off. That pretty much made it all but impossible to really do anything. At the start of Christian's break, Emily and her dad decided to take off for a bit of an adventure. Their plan was to do Steel Pass in Death Valley with Caitlyn's Jeep. Of course, as usual, as soon as it starts, we get a weather system in.

Regardless, they said most of the towns they went through was super crowded. They got rained on which turned to snow at some point. A lot of the roads were messed up but apparently, it was beautiful out there.

They camped in the rain. The tent needs to be treated. Apparently the rain got in and some of their stuff got all wet. We've had the tent since way before the kids were born.
They got up in the morning and headed into the snow.
We don't have chains for the Jeep yet but luckily, the ones for my truck mostly fit on her tires. They certainly needed them.

At one point the road gave way and the Jeep ended up in a pretty precarious situation. As before, Christian ended up having to rebuild and redirect the road to get out. Emily tried to help him move some rocks and broke our camping shovel. We always bring a full sized shovel for these situations and that's what Christian uses to literally dig himself out of these situations.

The pictures never really show quite how bad the terrain really is. It is really hard to capture. Luckily, they didn't roll over and the only thing that got damaged was a hanger for the exhaust pipe. Hopefully Christian will be able to weld it back to something useable. 

Because their camping gear got wet the night before, they decided to cut the trip short and head home after their long ordeal. 

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Christian spent the rest of his break working out in the shop mostly. He has a bunch of welding projects lined up. Emily worked on and off. When Caitlyn finally got her Spring Break and Christian had to get back to work, we planned a few afternoons out. Emily only had a few days that week that she wasn't working. On one of the days, the girls and I drove out towards LA to do some shopping (and eating). Emily wanted a few things before heading back to Idaho. We planned to have lunch out there and the girls were excited but we had trouble with most of the places we picked out. Some of the restaurants were not even open that day. We wasted a lot of time driving around and around. 

We finally settled on a little Chinese restaurant. The food was pretty good and we were adequately hungry by then but we didn't want to stuff ourselves because the girls wanted boba afterwards. We did some shopping in between. We had actually intended to stop by to see my mom while we were out there but we took too long and decided to head back and come see her another time. We didn't want to run into the worst of the traffic going home. We had a good time though and it was nice to spend some time with both of the girls. Sometimes Emily and I would go out but Caitlyn was usually in class or home doing homework or whatever.

Emily and Caitlyn spent one of their free days going to the beach. They had a great time but came back fairly sunburned. Caitlyn put some sunscreen on but her coverage was not that great. Emily didn't put any on at all and got it the worst.

The girls spent a lot of time this past month trying to relearn their organ songs. Their teacher wanted them to play during church which we were supposed to start back up. The organ was mostly put together but they were still putting some finishing touches to it and we kept having problems. We had to keep pushing back the date for them to play because the organ just was not ready yet. It was very frustrating.

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We did manage to get together with what is left of Christian's family this past month in San Diego. It was nice to see everybody for the most part.

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We spent the rest of the month sanding the XJ down to bare metal so that we can paint it. It is a lot of work. We are starting with the roof as that is where there are the most rusty spots.

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The girls went to another youth dance. The youth are sick of being isolated and basically missing out on the last of their childhood and have decided to get together with others who aren't afraid to get out and live their lives. Before all this, I tried to get the girls to go out to official church dances but they scoffed and refused to go. They never did too much with the other kids from church except once in a blue moon or during special holiday get togethers. Now, they have a group chat going and they get together every few weeks or so for a dance or to play games or whatever. It's kind of nice.

After a full year of being away from school, Caitlyn's school started re-opening at the end of the month for in person classes a couple days a week. Of course, because of "social distancing," they have the kids who signed of to go back to school split into two groups. Group A goes Monday and Tuesday and Group B goes Thursday and Friday. They are still online on Wednesday which is a minimum day anyway so they really only check in to all their classes. But because the teachers are stretched so thin, they pretty much reduced the amount of work the kids had to do by half. It's all pretty pathetic. None of the kids are getting much of an education. It's all a joke and the teachers are tortured with all kinds of useless red tape.

Caitlyn wanted to take the CHSPE and just test out of high school at the end of this school year but because of "COVID," they kept delaying the test date. Once it was finally announced, we found out that there were no test sites in the Inland Empire this year and the cost went up more than double. 

She only needs two classes to graduate and is trying to figure out some kind of loophole to get around it but it doesn't look good for her as her district won't let her take anything less than 5 classes so that they can be sure to get the funding for her attendance. They offer nothing in the way of electives that is worth taking so she is very frustrated.

Monday, March 15, 2021

Emily's Birthday

 Emily turned 18!

It's so crazy that it has been 18 years and she will be leaving again for Idaho next month.

Her birthday landed on a Friday this year, so we were just home by ourselves. She did not have to work. I guess it was a good and bad thing. She didn't really want to have to work on her birthday but they still have her working very minimal hours still. Every week she gets a little more so she might be working halfway decent hours by the time she has to quit and go back to school! We are happy she got a chance to earn a bit of money for school though and now she has a bit of job experience to help her get her next position.

As usual, we had some of her favorite foods she either doesn't get that often or missed. For breakfast she asked for some rice porridge. For lunch, we picked up some carne asada fries at our favorite taco shop. And for dinner, we made poke at home.

She also got to open/use some of her birthday gifts. her main gift was a couple of pairs of new Vans.
Some of her old shoes were pretty trashed so I got her some new ones on the condition that she throw away one of her old ones that she keeps saying is still "fine."

We had the usual suspects over for a big birthday luncheon on Saturday. We have not all gotten together in a long time. 
I always save her fancier cake for her party as I don't have the energy and time to do that twice. So if I know we are planning a bigger party, I will do something simpler for her actual birthday with just ourselves. She got more presents...well, sort of.
Apparently, Emily was in the doghouse with Marian again. It seems that they had another agreement that Emily did not follow up on. I don't know what it was and frankly, I don't think I want to know but Marian definitely wants Emily to know that that is not okay. So she got a shredded $20 bill and a bag of Idaho potatoes. Don't ask...I won't either. But in the end, Marian got her some gas so, they came to some kind of understanding about it all.

She also brought over the rest of our presents from Christmas since we didn't see her for the holidays this past year.
She got Comfy's for all the girls including myself. Evidently, a bunch of Emily's college friends had them so she knew what they were. Marian had described them to me before but I had never heard of them. They are very warm! Emily will definitely get lots of use out of hers in Idaho. Caitlyn has already gotten lots of use of hers since she gets up early for Seminary and just sits in front of her computer all day. Our house is kept fairly cool most of the time as Christian usually runs hot if he is not also sitting in front of his computer teaching.

Christian had to rotate Marian's tires as well. Seems like everyone needs it. That's the third set of tires he's rotated in the past month that doesn't actually belong to us. They were going to try to get her to get a new set of tires but Christian said that she doesn't need them yet and just rotated them so that they would wear a bit more evenly. Plus, she had one tire that was over inflated which seemed to be causing the problem. With that fixed, hopefully Marian will not need new tires for a while yet.

After Terry and Jackie had left, Marian got us some cap steaks for dinner and she played MahJong with the girls. Caitlyn has been wanting to play again since they learned to play over Christmas. I have forgotten completely how to play. Our set has not been used since college when we played with Marian!