Saturday, October 31, 2020

Oppressive October

 It was a long month. Every week the "distance learning" gets more and more ridiculous for the teachers and just useless for so many students. Every week Christian gets new oppressive marching orders for a new or additional way they want information reported, or something new they want to make the students do that they should not be able to dictate to the teachers in their individual classes. The state have mired the teachers in so much red tape and reporting that they no longer have time or energy to actually teach. It is so ridiculous. One of the teachers in Christian's staff meeting broke down crying because she was just so overwhelmed with the crap they keep demanding from them.

If we had options and didn't owe so much money from him going back to school to get his teaching credential, Christian would have quit by now. No one is getting anything from all this idiocy. More than half his students are failing and apparently, all the other teachers in his school or district is experiencing the same thing. The students are not motivated to learn or do anything in this atmosphere. Christian is at his wits end and is ready to explode. He still spends time trying to get his students to get their grades up but when the students have little motivation and the computer doesn't ever even work like it's supposed to and their home environments are not conducive to learning, it is fighting an uphill battle. I'm sure he will end up with less failing students than many other teachers but it may come as a cost as he won't have time to jump through all the states' new hoops. We don't know what the consequences of all that will be but a person only has so much time and energy in a day.

Christian sits at his computer working on this stuff 12 to 14 hours a day. And when he's not, he's still thinking of what he needs to do and trying to come up with lesson plans which he needs to make up as he goes.

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Speaking of technology not working as it is supposed to, our internet provider sent us a new modem and forced us to install it in order to continue our service with them. That led to two weeks of stress and dropped internet services, sometimes during classes and meetings. After many phone calls, wasted time and energy, they finally sent a technician to come look into it. He fixed it, or at least we think so, as we have not had any further problems this week. We had to have Caitlyn e-mail her teachers as well so that they knew what was going on.

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Because of all the stress Christian has been under and the lack of sun and fresh air Caitlyn never gets anymore, we've been forcing everyone to walk away for a bit of R&R. Caitlyn is just pale doesn't have the energy she used to. The new phone/computer culture has really ruined her. We thought it was bad before, but now with the new distance learning, she is just a shut-in.

So, the first chance we got, we headed back out to the Mojave desert in search of Cadiz Road. We made our first attempt back when Emily was still here with us. Alas, we still did not find it.

We did, however, find a neat area to scramble around on the rocks. It also offered a, somewhat off-the-beaten-path, camping area good for a get-a-way weekend.

We also found an interesting area we wanted to explore more of. We ran into some more turkey vultures watering in the aqueduct and a beautiful sunset.
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The next time we went out, we went to explore a way up to the Arica Mountain range that we saw last time. It is a really neat rock formation so we drove around to see what was a good way to get there. We found several roads on the map that was supposed to take you a good way up. We first explored some of the surrounding area before heading up the trail.

Unfortunately, once we picked a trail to get up, as we drove out of a wash and headed up into the rock formation, the road under us crumbled and we got stuck in this pit of the finest silt.
We had one tire entirely up in the air on one side, the back tire on the same side was kind of teetering barely touching the ground, the other back tire was sunk in the silt so we really only had the other front passenger tire that was actually engaged. It was super precarious. Christian was driving. Caitlyn was in the front passenger seat and I was in the back. Caitlyn had to get out and hang off the driver's door so that Christian could scoot out while I got into the driver's seat. It was totally crazy and scary. After testing it, we were able to keep it from tipping over with me sitting there while keeping the door swung out and open to balance it. Caitlyn took videos and pictures while Christian tried various methods to get us out. 
None of it was working. Every time I would try to drive out, it dug us in further. We had to disengage the sway bar which got the front driver's side to almost touch the ground. Christian said a prayer and had be back out a bit and we were finally able to drive out.

Of course, that left us with what to do from there. We considered driving forward to see if we can find another way down. The hole made when the road collapsed on itself was way too big to fill in. We looked for a different approach that we might be able to ford, but there were drop-offs in every direction. Caitlyn walked up several hills but could not see another way off of the road we were heading up. We figured that it was starting to get late and we were running out of time. Christian finally decided to move the road over about half the width of a car and started digging to level the ground. It was a lot of work but when he was finished, the road looked totally drivable and headed back the way we came with no problems.

Even though it looked fine, we had to hit the road at exactly the right way or it might knock us into the sandy area and tip the vehicle over for real this time. We also wanted to be far enough over so that more of the road didn't collapse under us. It was still stressful.
As we made it back to the main road, the sun was setting and we had to air-up the tires to get back down the road towards home.  It was late, we were thirsty and hungry and still a ways away from civilization.
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We were able to actually go into church one week. It was shortened and a bit weird. Our new organ was finally completed. Now we need to try to work organ practice back into our schedule. Caitlyn started off the summer doing piano pretty well but by the end of summer, she barely touched it again. With her school schedule, we had to try to make her continue, albeit slowly, making progress.
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On Halloween, we went out and finally made it to Cadiz Road. We found some old salt mines off of there. 
We tried to drive across the dry riverbed but there were too many rabbit warrens and other hazards that we had to worry about. 

From Cadiz Road, we went in search of the road that we lead us to the Old Woman. It is supposed to be a nice pinnacle with good climbing routes in the middle of nowhere. We saw the mountain range it was supposed to be on, but we could not find a road that would lead us to it. After several false starts, we decided to end the day at the Cadiz Sand Dunes instead.
Unfortunately, there was another car load full of people ahead of us. They were really loud and had a drone. We headed in a different direction but they were in all our shots of the sunset, so we decided to just Photoshop them out and left early to head home. It was really beautiful out there and the dunes were a lot bigger than I thought they would be but unfortunately, not peaceful. Another car arrived as we headed out.
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We published Terry's short story this month. We have been trying to get the word out with limited success. We are still working on his main story to come out shortly.
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Emily is doing well in Idaho. She really likes one of her roommates. They have a lot in common and she is meeting people and having fun. It's been cold there and she has even had a couple of snow days but they have not lasted too long. She joined an intramural soccer team. Hopefully, she is keeping up with her school work. She does not have any really interesting classes so hopefully she is slogging through it. 

After the grueling drive with the added expense in gas to drop Emily off in Idaho, we realized that we could not afford to go visit her during Thanksgiving and then arrange for her to come back just several weeks later at the end of her quarter. She does not have classes this winter and will return in the Spring. She got invited to her roommate's house for Thanksgiving though. Her family lives in Northern Utah, so it is a bit of a drive but not insurmountable. They seem excited about the prospect and we are glad for that.




Wednesday, September 30, 2020

Sad September

 September started with us continuing to frantically finish getting Emily ready to go off to college. Her driver's license actually did arrive in time for her to get in the mail here for her. The stickers for her car did not. 

Emily procrastinated packing up her stuff until the last couple of days. Of course, she ended up forgetting a bunch of stuff in the end.

We woke up early on Thursday to head out for Idaho. We just drove up the 15 as it would be the most direct route. We made pretty good time but we still ran into some traffic jams in a couple of different spots in Utah. Our plan was to stop near the Utah/Idaho border and camp off some utility roads but, as usual, we found that the roads that lead in the direction we planned to go were gated off by private companies/individuals or even by the BLM themselves. We could not get to the open land that we found on maps. We knew that once we got into Idaho, there would be even less of a chance to find public land to camp on as it is totally covered with farms and ranches through this area. In the end, since we made good time, we stopped to pick up dinner and continue on to Rexburg. So in the end, we made it in one day but we were terribly tired and disgruntled about it all. We camped out by the dunes as we had scouted out during the summer.

It was pretty cold out there. We had planned to camp at the border because of where it was located and it should have been at least 10 degrees warmer there. We got onto the campus in the morning to check Emily into her apartment shortly after they opened. There was one roommate already there. Apparently she'd been there since the Spring. She seemed pretty nice. She got her pick of space after that. We got her half unpacked before lunch. Christian still had meetings on Thursday and Friday so Christian got a data pass to attend to his meetings while we were on the road. He had another one in the apartment while Emily unpacked.

Her actual apartment was not left quite that clean which we were not that pleased about. The complex itself was a bit old and could be taken care of a lot better. The grounds itself seemed to be taken care of fairly well but the parking lots were not. We partly rushed up here so that she can check in early and get a good spot but also so that we can make sure that she got a parking pass as it was a possibility for them to run out. We probably didn't have to worry though as the complex was not entirely filled up yet. We took a break and went out to Fong's for lunch. We took Emily's roommate out with us so that they can get to know each other. 

We came back to the apartment afterwards to drop off her roommate and the leftover food and headed back out to get Emily's school ID and books. Christian came to find some shade and finish some work he had to do on the computer while he waited outside for us. It was all a bit overwhelming and confusing but there were lots of very helpful and friendly people there. 

We did run into one big problem while we were trying to get everything set up for Emily. When Emily tried to pay her rent for the quarter, the bank wouldn't let her do it. We tried updating her address, we talked to the management for the apartment a couple of times, we called the bank to try to find out what the problem was since she has the funds for it. In the end, we found out that the idiot banker that we have been dealing with here in Moreno Valley did not take the daily limit off of her account when she switched the account from a teen account to a normal adult account. We could not do it over the phone so Emily had to wait until Monday to go to the bank to sort it out. Then she had to make an appointment with a banker and go back again to get it done. What a hassle that banker here caused us over and over again. She made us waste so much time and energy because of her incompetence.

Afterwards, we went out to shop for a few items Emily realized that she needed at the apartment and a few groceries to get her started. That actually took a while but to be honest, in the end, I think we went on a a quest for some items just because we wanted an excuse to stick around a bit. Emily was still scared and a bit stressed about being on her own but she got a text from her friend from California and they were planning to meet up so we finally decided to head out and make our way back home. We did not want to take the 15 back and wanted to explore a little. It was more difficult than I thought to leave Emily there. I think we all had a difficult time with it but we know that the experience will be good for her.

We took the back roads to head out of Idaho. Because we left so late, we actually did not make it out by the end of the day. We drove until we were tired and found a place to pull over. We camped near some windmills. The next morning we got up to continue on. We stopped by the Castle Rocks National Park area to investigate. It seemed like a pretty neat area and we wanted to investigate as they are supposed to have some good climbing in the area.

It was still pretty early in the morning so we thought we can scout it out a little, but shortly after we arrived, some park ranger came by and wanted to give us a ticket since we did not pay the entrance/parking fee. We did not plan to stay but just wanted to look around a bit. But during all this time, cars started to stream into the area and we decided to just move on out. Thankfully, Christian managed to talk the Ranger guy out of giving us a ticket.

We then drove into the City of Rocks area and it seemed to be packed with the worst sorts of tourists from Utah. We didn't bother stopping. There were, however, some good camping possibilities in this area as there was nothing else out here but open land. It was a bit smokey in this area though but we did not know where the fire was.

We meandered through the back roads into Utah and then Nevada. We saw some turkey vultures and some really neat wild horses.
At some point, we realized that we were just not getting very far very fast and needed to move our time table up a bit. We jumped onto some bigger roads to make better time. It was a pretty grueling journey. We got near Carson City, it was getting late and we were pretty tired from our long day of driving and not much rest. Our plan was to head down the 395 to enter into California near Bridgeport.

As we headed into Minden, Nevada, there seemed to be an inordinate amount of traffic for that road on that time of day. Pretty soon, the traffic was bumper to bumper and there were police lights up ahead. Even if there was an accident, there seemed to be too many cars. We hoped that there was not a fire and people were being evacuated or getting turned around. But our traffic kept moving slowly forward. Next to us, we found lots of cars parked on the side of the road and that seemed pretty unusual as well. Shortly after, we saw crowds of people walking in the opposite direction of traffic. Some of the people were holding signs so we were afraid that there was some protest going on but none of it made sense because it was late into the night practically in the middle of nowhere. All we knew was that we were tired and didn't want to get rerouted somewhere and have to go all the way back to enter California through Carson City. We also didn't want to get stuck in the middle of some big violent protest. I got Christian's phone which still had some data left and tried to find some news report on what was going on. 

Apparently a Trump rally for the 2020 election just let out. There were thousands and thousands of people flooding out of the area like at the end of a concert at the Forum. Some were driving and the others were heading back to their cars along the road. I've never seen anything like it. We had planned to pull into a McDonald's or something to get a coke to help us get back over to California but a lot of the people leaving seemed to have the same idea or they were having a late dinner or something. We opted to just keep going and get out to where we could camp as soon as we could.

Bridgeport was really cold. The temperature had dropped down 10 degrees in the three miles it took to get into the town. We continued on until it got a bit warmer and we were too tired to continue on. We just slept in the truck as we were and got moving again when the sun came up. 

We stopped by at the Olancha Dunes to do a little exploring.
We had the place to ourselves and had a little bit of fun driving around on the dunes. They were not too big but some of it was really soft. 

We finally called it a day and headed back the rest of the way home. Caitlyn had stayed home for her classes on Thursday and Friday so Marian had gone to stay with her and keep her company. We are extremely thankful for that as we were a lot more comfortable leaving Caitlyn behind with someone to stay with her. She was still there when we got back so we got to visit with her a little bit. Caitlyn made us all dinner while we unpacked and got cleaned up.
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Christian had to get back to teaching online the very next day so his schedule was really hectic and had no time to unwind before having to put his nose back to the grindstone. We got incredibly lucky that he only had a few meetings to attend while we were away and was still able to do that for the most part on the road which allowed him to be able to drop Emily off for college.
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Caitlyn had been stressing about her Calculus class for the last month. In the beginning, Emily was able to help her out occasionally but things were getting more difficult and Emily is no longer here to help her so we got her to drop out of Calculus and go back to Pre-Calculus to reinforce what she was supposed to have learned at the end of the last school year. She is much happier now but she had to add a zero period in order to rearrange her schedules to make it work.
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We kind of celebrated my birthday early since Emily would not be around when my birthday came up. I turned 50 this year. Seems kind of surreal. She got me a leg pillow to help me sleep.
Actually, Christian gave me my present even earlier. He got me a new camera.
I actually got it in time to use for Austin and Natalie's wedding. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to really take it out to play with it beyond that. Dropping Emily off in Idaho was just too stressful, I really didn't take too many photos. 

On my actual birthday, Christian had to work and Caitlyn had class so we didn't really do too much. Christian wanted to take me out for my birthday so I at least didn't have to cook on my birthday. Since we still aren't allowed to go out to restaurants, we picked up some Poke for dinner. That was actually really tasty. 

I also got a lens hood for the new lens that came with my camera. Caitlyn got my old SLR. It was supposed to go to Emily but we could never get her to bother taking pictures most of the time so we gave it to the one who had proven that they would actually use it.
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Meanwhile, the weather has not improved around here at all. We have had temperatures around 100 degrees for the entire month. The air quality is still bad from all the fires burning all around us. Christian has been working day and night most days because of all the insane requirements the state keeps piling up on everyone. Everything has gotten insane. 

Monday, August 31, 2020

Awful August

It seems as if every day, since we've returned from our epic road trip, has been over one hundred degrees. It has been excruciatingly hot. It's been pretty unbearable. We can barely open our windows in the morning to get some air. Some days, it never gets cool enough. The plants are suffering and we need to work on some things outside but it is too hot to work out there and we get bit up from mosquitos constantly. It is truly a misery. 

Christian started back at school at the end of the first week of August. They moved him to Rialto High School this year. We had to get into his old classroom to pick up the rest of his stuff and move them over to his new classroom. The problem is, is that they had a classroom key for him but no building key and the former teacher in that classroom didn't even remove all his stuff yet. The good news is that he will get to teach Physics still and he will only have to teach one subject this year instead of two. Last year he had to teach two different Physics classes.

The next week he started teaching from home, except he didn't have access to the District website to get into the school's system. He had to teach out of his Google Classroom for a week and a half before he got access to put in the student information.

Caitlyn started her classes as well. She had to choose between Physics or Chinese 3 because it was at the same time. I know that they only have one Chinese class but shouldn't they have more than one Physics class to choose from? In the end, she just stuck with her Chinese class since she's already decided that she isn't going to be a science major. She was still missing one class and had been trying to get a response from her school counselor since before summer started. We honestly wasn't sure she still worked there as there seems to be a revolving door at her school. She has had a different counselor every year.

In the end, she got her schedule squared away but she has a bunch of easy classes this year, which is okay since she is worried about her calculus class. And in the end, she decided to take another RCC class through their Dual Enrollment program. 

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About mid-month, we headed down to Ramona to attend our nephew's wedding. We were not looking forward to it, however as it was still terribly hot and there is a lot of family drama going on with the rest of his family. Apparently his mom flipped out and divorced her husband. The divorce went through just before the wedding and she planned to move away just after. It was all very uncomfortable and we didn't know what she might say or do.

The wedding was okay though and we are thrilled for Austin and Natalie.


They had a small outdoor wedding at a friend's house. Luckily, it was on a hill and there was a bit of a breeze to make it bearable. They had the wedding, then we had lunch but left right after they cut the cake as they were about to start the party, so we left it to the youngsters to find some relief from the heat. Austin and Natalie will be leaving shortly to start their new life in St. George, Utah.

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Emily and I have been going back and forth from the bank and the DMV this summer. We went to open her an account on her own but found out that she needed either her Driver's license or State ID to get it on her own. We finally gave up on hoping that the DMV would open up for behind the wheel appointments and went to get her a Real ID. We had to wait in a line that wrapped all around the building. We then still had to get a number and wait by our car for them to call us to get into the building. We were so hot and tired by the time we got in and got it done. We inquired about when they might be opening up for appointments but they were still trying to catch up with all the cancelled appointments from before and had no idea when it would happen. 

About a week or two later, they finally opened up for appointments and Emily got to squeeze in her behind the wheel test before leaving for college. Luckily, she passed but I was actually pretty worried as the guy testing her had just failed another student in front of us and one of the other parents' son, who was waiting with me, had him before and said that he had failed his kid previously as well, so apparently he had a reputation for being a hard-ass.

So, after being in limbo and worrying about what was going to happen with all this, she finally got her license and we immediately set to work trying to get her insured and getting the vehicle re-registered with the DMV. We'll see how that goes. Everything has been set in motion. Christian took Emily to get the SMOG check for the Ranger and the paperwork has been dropped off at the DMV office. Now she is waiting for the stickers to come in and her license to be sent to her. She only has a couple of weeks left.

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Emily and Caitlyn have shared rooms most of their lives. We decided long ago to keep it that way, even though we had enough room for them to have their own because it is too easy for teenagers to stomp off into their own rooms and shut everybody out. But since Emily is leaving for college soon, we decided to let Caitlyn consolidate her crap to one room instead of staring at Emily's empty side in two different rooms. 

In addition, since Christian is working from home now, he's been complaining that his work area is just too small. 

So, we decided to play musical rooms. Christian and I had the smallest room in the house as our office. The kids had two rooms. One was their bedroom and the other was their playroom which turned into their study once things got more serious at school. They have their own desks and computers in there.

We decided to commandeer their playroom as our new office (which is the second biggest bedroom in the house after the master bedroom). Originally, Caitlyn was claiming it once Emily moved out. We let her keep her bedroom instead and moved Emily into our old office. In actuality, her bedroom is just a smidge smaller than the playroom but we wanted all the extra room that we could get.

It's been a complete mess in the house for several weeks now as we try to juggle all our stuff from one room to another. One annoying thing we found out is that the closet in our new office is actually smaller than the one in our old office for some reason. We've been getting rid of a lot of our old papers and shredding lots of our old files while the kids have been sorting and getting rid of a lot of their old toys, games and books. It is difficult since DI is still not open and we can't just haul everything out of here to donate. But at the same time, we can't store everything in here forever so we just ended up trashing a lot of their stuff. Our trash can fills up again immediately after the trash gets taken away for the week. If DI doesn't open soon, we will probably just continue put their old stuff in the trash probably. 

Christian is trashing his old desk and built himself a new desktop by repurposing a piece of plywood from our old organ at church. He threw together some shelving to hold his stuff and to hold up the desk top. It's much more useable now. Plus the school gave the teachers some extra money to help them work from home so he got a more comfortable seat and a new computer monitor. 

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Marian dropped by to see Emily before she heads out to college in a couple of weeks. She brought a ton of goodies that she will need for college (i.e. food, snacks, supplies).

Even with all the stuff she brought, she forgot a few things that she had planned to get Emily and so we went on a little shopping excursion to get her a few more items. It's crazy how much stuff you need to go out on your own but we've been trying to get her ready for weeks now and she still is missing stuff. 

Anyway, we are always thankful for Marian's thoughtfulness and generosity.

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Shortly after Christian finally got access to his District computer system and started trying to catch up on inputting the class information for his students, the whole system got shut down. Apparently, the whole district has been closed down indefinitely to investigate some malware that has infected their system. It's a real mess. The FBI is apparently investigating but Christian has not been able to teach for over a week now and we do not know how long this will go on. 

Meanwhile, we are trying to endure the heat and finish getting Emily ready for college. She managed to get her Patriarchal Blessing so hopefully it will be a help to her.



Thursday, July 30, 2020

Epic Road Trip

After wasting the whole summer away at home, we finally decided to get out and do something. We decided on a road trip to Colorado. We've never really explored there before. The trip didn't quite turn out as we had planned. We ended up driving through six states and traveling just over 3,000 miles in a week.

We started out very early Sunday morning. We wanted to get through Vegas before all the people with hangovers started to stir. We succeeded and got into St. George, Utah before lunch. We dipped into Nevada and Arizona before going up to Utah.

Our first destination was near Hurricane, Utah but it was way too crowded. We continued up the south route to get to the other side of Zion and drove past Bryce and Escalante. Honestly, we were a bit discouraged. All the available spaces were just covered in RV's and side-by-sides tearing up the roads. We actually ended up finding a great spot in the Dixie National Forest. We drove around checking the area out and settled on a little pocket surrounded by aspen. We set up camp, made a campfire ring and collected wood for a fire. There were a lot of mosquitos in the area but none of them were as diseased as the mosquitos here in Riverside. We put on repellent but if we got bit, it was a little itchy and irritating and then you were pretty much fine. The mosquitos bites here swell up and I will be itchy for many days, losing sleep over it.

On day two, we decided to just stick around a bit and explore the area as it was very beautiful and peaceful. We drove by Long Lake and continued up the trail to see where it would take us.
We ended up on a bit more difficult 4x4 trail. We decided to just go up a little way to see what was up there. It took us to Scout Lake. It was just the most idyllic little site. We only saw one other person so far all day. We relaxed by the lake for a while and had our lunch. Unfortunately, it started to rain on us. We decided to head back and by the time we got back into the truck, it was raining pretty hard. We looked out over the mountain range and figured that we could not retreat back to our first campsite as it would probably be raining there as well or would be raining shortly.
We didn't think that the storm system could be too big, so we drove further east looking for a back way into Capital Reef National Park. We had several false starts. There seemed to have been a lot of roads that are no longer maintained so after a while, the brush would become impassable. We had a few mishaps on a couple of the trails. At one point, a large rock that we drove over popped up and wedged itself behind the passenger side tire. It put a big dent there and we had to jack up the wheel to dislodge the rock. It was pretty bad. 
After a few false starts, we finally found the way into Capital Reef. There were a few side trails that we wanted to explore but they were too narrow for the truck. As we followed one of the trails, we drove over a slab of rock that looked just like a slab we could normally roll over but apparently, when the right front tire went over it, it popped up and smacked the truck in the exact same spot as before, further damaging the body of the truck. This time the side fender got pushed up and I couldn't even open the passenger side door. Christian tried to hammer it back into place. He managed to pound it out so that it no longer affected the opening of the passenger door, but it still was not pretty. We need to install some rock sliders before we take the truck out again.

We were a bit sick over the damage as Christian hasn't even had the truck for a year yet, but since this is one of the reasons we bought the truck, we soldiered on.

As we started to descend into Capital Reef, the views were just amazing.
We took the scenic drive to Capital Gorge. Unfortunately, with all the false starts and mishaps, we did not get into Capital Reef until it was fairly late in the day, so we kind of raced through some parts of the park, snapping pictures along the way. We had dinner near the opening of the Gorge and tried to figure out what we wanted to do. We also found that Christian's new and expensive Yakima roof rack got all tweaked and the end cap fell off somewhere down the trail. We had our gas cans up there and apparently, it could not handle the weight. Christian had to remove part of it and fix it before the whole thing fell apart. We are pretty disgusted with Yakima. In addition, we had some bits and pieces fly off of the hold for the tonneau cover so we were not doing too well in the equipment department. Hopefully we can get replacement parts and figure out a better way to fasten it on next time.
We ended up exiting the park and camping off of Notom Road outside of the park. We figured that we would get an early start and head back into the park the next morning.
In the morning, we had to fight off clouds of gnats as we packed up and headed back towards Capital Reef but then stopped at a little pit stop there to look at a map. We had our breakfast and needed to make plans for the day. In the end, we decided that while we really enjoyed Capital Reef and wanted to return again someday, we did not feel inclined to return to the park on this trip. We got an overview of the park the evening before when the park had mostly emptied out and did not want to go back in and fight the other tourists for views on the road today.

We continued our way to the east and stopped by briefly at Factory Butte.
The area is really neat and probably underrated just because it does not have the vibrant colors the more popular buttes have. In fact, some of these buttes looked exactly the same as the ones in the popular parks but just drained of color. It was kind of fascinating.

We stopped in Hanksville to stock up on water and to get some maps. Unfortunately, all the BLM offices were closed except for appointments or something. It's funny how the rangers don't care about viruses as much when it comes to collecting fees but the BLM offices are all closed for fear of the virus.

We continued on and drove through Little Egypt. We had the place to ourselves, so we got to enjoy ourselves there except for the heat.
On a whim, we stopped by the Hite Overlook to see Lake Powell. There are a lot of overlooks that are overrated. You can get better views before or after the overlook but because you can't stop there, you have to settle for the views the overlook provides. This was not one of them. It was really beautiful.
There were some other people stopped here but not so many or so obnoxious that you couldn't stay away from them so it wasn't too bad, but again, it was very hot.

We continued on our way down State Route 95 across the bridge that takes you across the Colorado River. We pulled off at a dirt road to have some lunch and decided to explore where the trail takes you. Most of the trail was very well maintained at the beginning and then it seems to just disappear but if you continue farther up the seemingly invisible trail, it cuts into the side of a steep hill and allows you to proceed forward. The trail got a bit precarious at a few points but it basically takes you up to Jacob's Chair.
It was pretty neat but the trail seemed to go on forever. Since we did not want to spend the remainder of our day here and it was excruciatingly hot, we turned back near the top where the trail seemed to get more narrow. Also, while hiking around to scout out the trail, the sole on Christian's boots started to come apart. We have had many Five Ten shoes over the years and although the rubber on their shoes are about the best we've ever used, the glue they use to put it together is just crap. So basically, we were only halfway through our trip and Christian no longer had useable shoes. The only other thing he had was a pair of flip flops that has also seen better days.

We decided that we needed to head into a bigger city in search of an outdoor shop to get him a pair of shoes. On our way, we stopped by the Natural Bridges area and kind of drove through the loop but found out that you could not see much without getting out to hike down. Since it was getting late and Christian did not have any shoes, we did not get to stop to see anything.

We went instead in search of a place to camp. We took a side trail quite a ways away and finally settled on a place to camp. We proceeded to set up camp and have our dinner. Unfortunately, there were some really irritating flies in this spot. After three long days out on the road, we decided sponge baths were also in order. We had been watching the clouds all evening and saw that rain was imminent as we got ready for bed. We woke up to rain so we quickly packed up and headed out.

We headed into Moab in search of a mountain shop to look for Christian's shoes. It was so crowded there. In addition to it being the height of tourist season there, they decided that that was the best time to do some road maintenance to make things extra annoying for us all. We did manage to find a little mountain shop and found some shoes Christian liked. It was still raining on and off all morning so we had to figure out what we wanted to do.

We ended up going to the Canyonlands. There was a line to drive in and you had to pay. A lot of the view was obscured by haze. We decided to come back when we can drive through and see everything properly. We took a side road to take us to the edge and look over.
On the way to the edge we accidentally scraped the bottom of Christian's truck on a rock. We didn't think anything of it at first. But later, we checked underneath and saw that the splash shield over the transmission was hanging down. Apparently the bracket that held it in place got bent.
Christian had to do a bit of trail repair on the truck. His poor truck is a bit worse for all the wear on this trip. Afterwards, we decided to continue on our way towards Colorado. We went back through Moab.
We splurged on some burgers from MacDonald's for lunch. We stopped by to see the Fisher Towers.

Shortly after finally crossing over into Colorado, we pulled over to get some gas. It was still raining quite heavily. The gas station has one of those annoying pumps that blasts commercials, little news blurbs and the weather and stuff. The forecast they gave showed that there would be rain and thunderstorms for at least the next three days. Apparently, the storm system was a lot bigger than we would have thought. We were not equipped for the rain and colder weather all of this would bring to the mountainous area we had intended to go to. We had prepared for hot weather camping and had brought all of our lightest camping equipment. After checking the forecast for all the possible places we could go next, we decided to go up to Wyoming to see the Wind River Range. The forecast said that there was only a 15 percent chance of rain there. We fled through all the rainy parts of Utah, avoiding the worst parts of it only to find that it was worse in Colorado.

We had picked up a 4x4 trail book back in Hanksville, Utah and decided to try a couple of the trails on our way back through just for something different. We decided on this little loop above the highway to Sager Canyon in the Books area. It was actually a pretty neat trail. It would dip in and out through these washes.
We had the place pretty much to ourselves. We found a place to camp for the night. Our four man tent has been feeling a bit tight with the kids mostly grown up. It doesn't help that Christian and I have gained some extra weight in the last several years! We had decided to have one person sleep in the truck while the other three took the tent and we would alternate in the hopes of getting better sleep. It was Emily's turn to sleep in the truck on this day and for some reason, she had to get up to use the restroom at four in the morning. We all woke up to see what was the matter as she never usually has to leave the tent to use the restroom in the middle of the night. Since we were all up and was still just staying ahead of the storm again, we decided to just pack up and continue on our way. It started to sprinkle as we were finishing up, so it was a good thing we didn't let all our gear get too wet.

It was still mostly dark out when we started out. We took the Floyd Wash trail back to the highway. We saw antelope running through the grassy landscape. The trail was quite nice. We were pleasantly surprised at how much we liked it and was very happy we picked up the book or we would never have known about it.
We were hot and tired and decided that we needed to stop and take a dip in Big Brush Creek in Vernal, Utah. The water was icy but refreshing. It was nice to wash up a bit.

As we neared the border of Wyoming, we stopped by the Flaming Gorge area in Utah to pick up a map of Wyoming as we didn't know where to go and had not planned to be in Wyoming on this trip. We stopped by this stupid fishing/tackle store where they proceeded to scam us out of six bucks for a free tourist map of the Wyoming area. We were already down the road a ways away before we realized it and it wasn't worth turning back. We were getting pretty tired of the heat, not getting enough sleep and having to completely rearrange our plans to avoid the worst of the storms that seemed to be covering at least four states. Of course, we also found out that, of course, there was no rain back in Riverside.

We stopped off at the Flaming Gorge Dam briefly but there were too many tourists there, so we quickly left.
As we drove further into Wyoming, it began to rain once again. In fact, it started to rain really hard and we could barely see in front of us but we saw lightning light up the sky occasionally. It was not a good sign. We stopped in Pinedale to get some real maps. The weather was not good. Pinedale turned out to be a big tourist town and after acquiring some better maps, we headed back out to scout out the trails to the Wind River Range. Most of their roads are not very clearly marked so it was a bit frustrating. To make things worse, many of the roads that are supposed to be public backroads were closed off by the new rich landowners that bought up land near the road and we had to keep driving back out to find another way in.

We basically ran out of daylight at some point and decided that the forecast we got for the area was complete hogwash and we were not equipped to stay up in these mountain areas in a storm any more than we were in Colorado. So we had dinner and had to make new plans once again. We had so much fun in the beginning of our trip, we had talked about extending it but with all the trouble we have had trying to find somewhere to go, we were okay with wrapping up our trip at this point.

We decided to end it by cutting through to Idaho to visit Emily's campus in Rexburg. Leaving Wyoming was a rather harrowing experience. We found out pretty quickly why they had a speed limit during the daytime and a different one for during the night time. The night time speed limit was 10 mph slower because there are deer crossing the roads/freeways everywhere. They are a complete menace there. We came within inches of one of them. We crossed paths with at least 5 or 6 of them trying to get out of Wyoming. We were originally just going to take turns driving as we have been for most of the trip so that we can get rest in between but because it was so dangerous, Christian opted to just drive by himself for this leg of the trip. We kept looking for places to pull over and sleep but there was always somebody already at the available spots or the spots were too close to the freeway and there would be no way to get any real rest. We stopped somewhere over the Teton Pass and Christian finally got in about fifteen minutes of sleep but then got up and continued driving.

In Idaho, we looked for a way into the National Forest but all we found were no trespassing signs by private land owners and roads blocked by the BLM. We finally just pulled over and camped in some field and slept until the sun was well up. Everyone was absolutely exhausted, especially Christian.
The next morning, we woke up late and headed into Rexburg . We found the apartment complex that she put down a deposit on. It is across from campus and near the Temple. It was one of the cheaper options available to her. It seemed okay, but the parking lot has seen better days. They obviously haven't put any work into keeping it up. Hopefully the apartment building is taken care of better! She has to pay just for the semester, so if she doesn't like it there, she can find a spot elsewhere for the next semester.
Afterwards, we drove around the area to find alternative camping possibilities for when we come up and visit her or drop her off. We found a few better options than where we ended up staying last night. Christian wanted her to feel at home there, so we took her out to eat to get familiar with the area. Emily was afraid of not having Chinese food there so we picked out a Chinese restaurant near campus called Fong's. They have Chinese and American cuisine. We did not know what to expect. We were frankly a little wary and did not expect much but we were very pleasantly surprised. The food was moderately priced, especially given the fact that the portions were generous. They didn't serve anything fancy, just a down home type of food that tasted really familiar. We were curious as to where the owner's were from and found out that they are from the very same town in China that my family is from.

We ate way too much. We ordered four entrees but could only finish three and we basically stuffed ourselves to finish the third one. We took a walk around the campus to try to work off some of the food but it was too hot and the buildings are still closed so we could not find a bathroom and ended up having to leave. The campus was absolutely beautiful though from what little we saw. We did not bring our cameras though so I do not have any pictures.

We drove around town a little after using the restroom, got some drinks and stopped by the market to pick up a few supplies. We wanted to know if the potatoes there were fresher or better in any way since they were straight from the source. We didn't think they were very impressive at the market but stopped by a little farmer's stand off the freeway on our way out of town and picked up a ten pound box.
They were good but honestly, not really any different from what you can get locally for a bit cheaper.

After having such a huge lunch, we were not very hungry when dinner rolled around, so the last entree leftover from lunch was shared for dinner and it was plenty. We camped near Scipio Pass in Utah on our way home.

In the morning, we headed back out on the road. We didn't do any more sightseeing. We were pretty much done and just needed to get back home for the most part. We got into St. George around lunchtime. We were supposed to go to this Peruvian Chicken place my brother recommended and we were excited to try it, but when we got there, it was closed except for online/phone orders. They didn't have a menu outside, so we didn't even know what we were supposed to order. Their website wouldn't load on my phone because of security problems so we just left in disgust. It was pretty stupid considering the Five Guys down the street was open for in-door dining! We should have just stopped there instead, but was so fed-up with everything that we just ate some of our camping food and headed back into California.

In California, we took some alternate routes back home as we made good time. I took some pictures for a project I am working on with Christian's dad. We wanted to take some off-road trails back into 29 Palms but found out that they were closed as the marines do all their bombing practice in the hills. Of course the road atlas didn't mention any of that and the warning sign posted was in Spanish! Luckily, we know enough Spanish to get the gist of the message. Christian knows some of the area here and wasn't that surprised about the road closure to the public but we wanted to make sure.

We had dinner in Yucca and got home in good time to clean up before bed. It will be nice to wash up and get a good night's rest in our own beds.

Friday, July 24, 2020

Jumbled July

We started out the month returning to San Diego for Garth's funeral. It was small, short and sweet. Christian's parents each spoke with stories of Garth, as well as Erin. Austin and his fiancé Natalie sang a song. Terry sang one of Garth's favorite songs as well. Christian dedicated Garth's grave. We had to wear masks because there were a few people from Garth's group home there. There was only 6 chairs under a couple of canopies for "social distancing" so all the family just stood to one side to give the group home people room on the other side. In the end, all the speakers and singers had to take their masks off at some point anyway so it was all a bit of a bother.

We were happy to have driven down Terry's Trooper to return it to him though. That was a huge load off our back. It is running really nice though.

We hung out and ate at Erin's house afterwards. Christian's mom was heading back up to Oregon the next day and Erin and her kids were going to go up as well. Michaela was bringing a friend with her. We were originally going to go up at the same time but felt that it was too much. We went home to get some much needed rest and spend the next day packing. We left on Friday for the 14 hour drive up to Oregon.
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We made good time up to Oregon. We arrived in plenty of time for a quick dinner and to look around at their property. The girls were familiar with the house since they spent several weeks her last summer but Christian and I had not seen the house yet.

In the morning, Cheri made us breakfast and we sat around for a while waiting for everyone to get up. We decided to drive out to take a quick look at Terry's property there. Cheri led us there in her Jeep and then left us there to explore. Most of the land was very steep and covered in trees and poison oak so we did not explore much. We drove around looking for one of his Grandparent's old houses.

When we got back, mostly everyone was up and moving. Cheri and Erin took off to reserve a spot at the river. Austin and Natalie put some food together for the day and we were finally off.

The river was extremely crowded. It was the Fourth of July, so it was not pleasant. Music was blasting everywhere. Most of us were dropped off further up the river and we paddled our way down in various canoe/rafts. Christian and I did not speak up and ended up with the worst of the lot and it was difficult to maneuver. We stayed out in the water as much as possible to keep away from most of the crowds.
I got to try most of the toys except for the paddle boards. I was not brave enough to give that a try. Cheri brought this huge six man raft that they bought but never used and we took that further down the river. We did not know what to expect. Most of the river was pretty calm but there was some small rapids supposedly on the way. Truth be told, it was all mostly calm. Some of the other's jumped in and out of the water because it was so hot. Although it was not very exciting, it was the best part of the day at the river as we were finally able to escape some of the noise and most of the people so it was pretty nice.
Austin had driven out earlier to leave his truck at the boat dock but because he was afraid of getting the key fob wet, he ended up giving the keys to Cheri. We realized towards the end that we might not have an easy way of getting back. Luckily, Cheri realized that she had his keys and drove back out there to bring us the keys!

We packed up and left shortly after the rafting group returned. Everyone took turns cleaning up and they prepared to bbq hot dogs and burgers. Mark and Danielle, who did not go to the river, had got things started while we were away.

After dinner, the kids got to light up a bunch of fireworks that Erin had picked up earlier. Our kids have never gotten to really play with fireworks since they were illegal where we live. But since everyone sets them off illegally for months before and months after July normally, we were not overly enthusiastic about them anyway.
Everything was going mostly fine until we got back from the river. Because of some personality issues and family drama with so many people in the house, it had gotten kind of unpleasant. In the end, we decided to leave the next day.  Even the girls were not enjoying themselves nearly as much as last year when they were here mostly by themselves with their cousin Michaela. We spent a long time talking very late with Cheri.

In the morning, she made us breakfast and we packed up to begin our long journey back down to Southern California. Christian woke Mark up to give him a blessing before leaving. He had asked for it before retiring for the evening.

We came back down the long way, taking the 395. It took us longer, but it was overall more pleasant.
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I had forgotten to mention back in June that Caitlyn finally got bored and got up the courage to get her haircut. She actually went with getting some bangs...so that was interesting, except, every time we looked at her with her hair down like that, we didn't hardly recognize her. When she put her hair up in a pony tail, she looked a lot more normal.
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Christian's school district told them that they were re-assigning him to Rialto High School to teach Physics. He's not too happy with that but at least they are keeping him through all of this distance learning fiasco,  We don't know what he's going to be doing this next school year as everything keeps changing weekly. The district didn't think that they would re-open for in class teaching then the state mandated that there needs to be an option for kids to be taught in the class room. Then the governor turned around and started re-closing certain businesses again so we are back to not being able to have an in-class option.

Caitlyn had chosen to return to school in the classroom as well but it will be done in phases depending on the whim of the governor and what he thinks he can get away with. 
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Towards the end of the month, Christian's dad came back up for Christian to look into recharging his air conditioner. It was not working as well as it had been and he wanted to make his first trip up to Oregon since his operation. We were getting ready to go on a real family trip but Christian got the tools and everything to help re-charge his dad's Trooper anyway. In preparation, Christian re-charged Emily's Ranger and that went well but it took a lot of refrigerant. We got some more for Terry but it did not go so well. We think that there is more wrong with his Trooper's a/c system than just being low on refrigerant. It was making some weird noises before he started and there was some strange smells occasionally when we had tested it earlier. But after trying to put in more refrigerant, it just stopped working.  We didn't really know what to do. Christian's dad needed to leave and we had to prepare for our tip, so we just had to leave it at that for now.